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Every year as Christmas approaches, Catholics begin to engage in a familiar debate: Should we “do” Santa Claus? Should a Catholic home welcome the jolly man in red, or is he merely a distraction from the sacred meaning of the Nativity? Some see him as an innocent, joyful part of childhood; others see him as a symbol of consumerism or a potential threat to a child’s trust in their parents. And, as with many things in Catholic culture, there is a truly split reaction. This question has only seemed to intensify in recent years, with social media fueling strong opinions on both sides. But for me, this conversation isn’t abstract—it’s personal. I grew up in a non-practicing Catholic home, where St. Nicholas wasn’t even a blip on my radar. I didn’t learn about him, his life, or his feast day until I was in my twenties. Yet we did have Santa Claus. We had the full experience: the cookies & milk, the stockings, the reindeer bait, and the presents magically appearing overnight. And somehow, despite Santa being part of my childhood, I went on to discover the Catholic faith, to love it, and to live it fully. So when I hear the argument that “Santa harms faith,” or that he inevitably leads to confusion, I can’t help but think: That wasn’t my experience at all. If I were to take a stance in this debate, I would say—wholeheartedly—that celebrating Santa can actually help cultivate faith. Santa, Imagination, and the Development of Faith When I look back on my childhood, Santa wasn’t a barrier to faith. He was a bridge—one that expanded my imagination, my sense of wonder, and my openness to “things unseen.” Santa, along with the many other imaginative traditions my family engaged in, gave me the capacity to believe in truths that aren’t tangible. My imagination was encouraged to recognize that reality is deeper, richer, and more mysterious than what can be measured. And isn’t that what faith is? A belief in the unseen? A trust in a reality beyond our senses? Santa didn’t confuse me. He stretched my imagination. And that imaginative, whimsical stretching would later support my ability to perceive divine truths that cannot be touched or proven with scientific precision. We, as Catholics, of all people, should understand the power of lore. Catholicism Is a Faith Built on Story Our tradition is filled with stories—thousands of years of them. Some are historical accounts. Others are hagiographies shaped by the spiritual minds of early Christians. Many saints’ lives include fantastical elements that, while perhaps not literal, convey a deeper truth about virtue, holiness, and God’s action in human lives. We appreciate writers like C.S. Lewis and J.R.R. Tolkien precisely because they understood that imagination is not opposed to truth—rather, it is one of its most powerful servants. They wrote in mythical realms with characters who ultimately reveal Christ, His virtues, and His love. So the idea that Catholics should become “flat,” unidimensional, or hyper-literal about figures like Santa or even Halloween feels strangely disconnected from our own heritage. We love a good story—so why do we cringe when it comes to our own cultural folklore? The “You’re Lying to Your Children” Concern One of the most common objections among parents is that telling children Santa is real feels like lying. And I understand the sensitivity. Parents want to cultivate trust. But here’s my honest reflection: Never—not once—has Santa appeared on the list of topics I’ve brought to therapy. The idea that believing in Santa somehow shatters a child’s trust assumes that children approach the world like miniature lawyers, carefully cataloging every statement for factual accuracy. But children approach the world through wonder. Through story. Through play. I don’t think abandoning Santa is inherently harmful. But I do think refusing to engage with imagination out of fear of “lying” misunderstands the developmental world children inhabit. Children, unlike adults, live in a liminal space—between the concrete and the imaginative—and that space is fertile ground for faith. Santa and St. Nicholas: A Both/And Approach Of course, St. Nicholas is deeply and directly rooted in our Christian tradition. His generosity, courage, and devotion to Christ are powerful examples for families. Celebrating his feast day—setting out shoes, reading his stories, teaching about his life—is a rich and beautiful practice. But why must it be either/or? Why not both/and? We can teach our children that the modern Santa has roots in St. Nicholas while also acknowledging that Santa has been shaped by a secular society that often misses the mark. We can draw from the good while rejecting the excesses. Santa does not have to represent consumerism, bribery (“If you’re good you’ll get more presents”), or shallow morality and reward systems. Parents can reshape Santa within the home by emphasizing: generosity joy kindness celebration creativity self-giving love Santa can become a character who inspires acts of charity and service—donating toys, baking for friends, giving away what we don’t need—rather than a dispenser of rewards. Why Do We Let Society Define Him for Us? This is the heart of my question: Why do we let society take ownership of Santa? Why do we surrender imagination, whimsy, and playful lore simply because the culture has distorted them? It is easier, I suppose, to say, “We’re not doing Santa because he’s not real and I don’t want to lie.” What’s harder is leaning into that messy, creative, imaginative space where stories and symbols become stepping stones to deeper truths. Where children learn through myths. Where joy leads to meaning. Where imagination nurtures faith. What We Lose When We Lose Imagination As adults, many of us have lost our sense of play. We forget how to create worlds, characters, rituals, and stories that shape the hearts and minds of our children. We underestimate how much imagination builds the capacity for faith. When we strip away whimsy, we strip away a part of the soul. And children need that whimsical space to grow in faith. Santa doesn’t have to overshadow Christ. He can point toward Him. He can prepare a child’s heart for the God who is unseen yet powerfully present. He can be a part of Catholic storytelling, not a competitor to it. So, To Santa or Not to Santa? Ultimately, each Catholic family must discern what aligns with their conscience and values. But for my part, I can say this: Santa was a magical part of my child heart. He didn’t hinder my faith—he expanded my imagination, my sense of wonder, and my openness to mystery. And I believe he can do the same for many children today. We don’t need to choose between truth and imagination because a good imagination will touch truth. We can embrace both. We can let lore speak truth. We can celebrate St. Nicholas faithfully and still welcome Santa joyfully. And maybe—just maybe—that imaginative space is where the seeds of faith take root most deeply. I welcome your thoughts and opinions on the matter, feel free to leave them in the comments!

Advent invites us into a different kind of pace—one marked not by frantic holiday rush, but by waiting, watching, and welcoming Christ with renewed hope. While the season is filled with beautiful liturgical rhythms, it’s also a wonderful time to slow down at home with stories that warm the heart, spark reflection, and help us enter more deeply into the mystery of the Incarnation. This movie list isn’t about checking boxes before Christmas arrives. It’s about creating small moments of stillness: lighting the Advent wreath before pressing play, sharing cocoa under a blanket, letting conversations linger after the credits. Films—whether classic, whimsical, or profoundly spiritual—have a way of drawing us into themes Advent holds dear: longing, light in the darkness, redemption, and the quiet persistence of love. Below you’ll find a curated selection of movies perfect for cozy evenings throughout the four weeks of Advent. Some are explicitly Catholic; others echo the season’s virtues in more subtle, story-driven ways. Choose a few that speak to your family, sprinkle them throughout the month, and allow them to become part of your annual rhythm—little cinematic touchstones that help you make space for Christ at the center of your home. Now, dim the lights, pour something warm, and enjoy the gentle, meaningful pause that an Advent movie night can bring. George Bailey, worn down by burdens and convinced the world would be better without him, is given a grace-filled gift: a glimpse of what life would look like if he had never been born. Through the gentle guidance of his guardian angel, Clarence, George discovers the immeasurable impact of simple kindness, quiet sacrifices, and steadfast love. A timeless story about the dignity of every human life, it reminds us that no good deed is ever forgotten—and no one is ever truly alone. A reverent and beautifully grounded retelling of Mary and Joseph’s journey to Bethlehem. The film portrays their hardships, courage, and deep faith with a humanity that draws viewers into the miracle of the Incarnation. From the Annunciation to the humble birth in the stable, The Nativity Story captures the hope, vulnerability, and divine love at the heart of Christmas, making it a powerful reflection piece for Advent. Told from the perspective of a small but determined donkey named Bo, this animated film offers a playful yet heartfelt take on the first Christmas. As Bo and his animal friends inadvertently become part of the Holy Family’s journey, children and adults alike are invited to see the Nativity with fresh wonder. Lighthearted humor blends with genuine reverence, creating a family-friendly film that highlights courage, friendship, and the joy of Christ’s coming. In this classic musical comedy, a New York performer opens a cozy Connecticut inn that operates only on holidays, creating a year-round calendar of festive song and dance. Featuring beloved tunes and sparkling Americana charm, the film captures the nostalgia and delight of seasonal traditions. While not overtly religious, its warm imagery and celebration of simple joys make it a lovely backdrop for an old-fashioned Advent movie night. Father O’Malley, an easygoing priest, and Sister Benedict, a spirited and determined nun, join forces to save their beloved parochial school. Their differing philosophies lead to both gentle conflict and heartfelt collaboration. Filled with humor, compassion, and deeply human portrayals of religious life, the film highlights themes of charity, humility, and the quiet heroism of those who serve others—perfect for Advent reflection. Set during the Civil War, this treasured adaptation follows the March sisters—Meg, Jo, Beth, and Amy—as they navigate the joys and trials of growing up. Their close-knit family life, guided by Marmee’s wisdom and anchored in simple virtue, offers a tender look at generosity, sacrifice, and hope in seasons of uncertainty. Its winter scenes and strong moral undercurrent make it a gentle, soul-warming watch during Advent.

Welcome back to the Sunday Supper Club, friends! I hope your Thanksgiving was full of joy, warmth, and oodles of blessings… and, if your fridge looks anything like mine, there's quite a few leftovers too. This week, we’re taking all that post-holiday goodness and turning it into a cozy, intentional meal to kick off the First Sunday of Advent. If you missed Edition One, definitely go back and read it—it has all the starter tips on how to launch your supper club, set your rhythm, and create a space that feels hospitable and prayerful. This Week’s Menu: Thanksgiving-Leftover Inspired Instead of letting those containers sit forgotten, let’s reimagine them: Turkey, Sage & Gruyère Paninis Warm, melty, and perfect for a simple Sunday supper. Take thin-sliced turkey, leftover herbs, and that last wedge of cheese pressed between buttery sourdough. Harvest Autumn Salad Easy, colorful, and feels like fall giving a final hug. Mix leftover roasted veggies (brussels sprouts, sweet potatoes, carrots—whatever you’ve got), add fresh greens, cranberries, pecans, and toss with a light vinaigrette. Mashed Potato Croquettes Crispy on the outside, fluffy on the inside. Mix mashed potatoes with shredded turkey or ham, roll into little ovals, coat with breadcrumbs, and pan-fry. Serve with a dollop of leftover gravy. Pumpkin Pie Cheesecake Jars It tastes like you planned it all along. Layer broken pieces of leftover pie (yes, truly!) with a quick cheesecake filling—cream cheese, whipped cream, and honey. Outfit Inspo: First Sunday of Advent Since Advent begins on Sunday, November 30, 2025, let’s lean into the theme of hope, quiet expectation, and of course—liturgical purple. Casual Look: Think: cozy, welcoming, ready-to-host without overthinking it. A soft, oversized cream sweater Dark wash jeans Plum or lavender scarf for that Advent nod Comfy ankle boots. Dressy Look: Elegant, subtle, and perfect for marking the beginning of a sacred season. A deep violet midi dress (or even charcoal with purple accents) Paired with gold jewelry Simple heel or nice boot Advent-Themed Table & Home Atmosphere Let your Sunday dinner space reflect the beauty of the new liturgical year: Color Palette : Purples, deep blues, soft neutrals, and candlelight. Decor : If you have an Advent wreath, make it the centerpiece. Add small evergreen clippings, pinecones, or simple glass votives around it. Touches of Thanksgiving : A few leftover gourds or your pretty fall napkins still totally work! I'm thinking “late autumn meets quiet Advent.” Music : Gentle instrumentals or Advent hymns in the background—just enough to warm the room. Some food for thought as we enter into Advent. As you wrap up your Sunday Supper Club this week, don’t forget to bring your Advent wreath to be blessed if your parish offers it—or simply ask a priest after Mass. When you gather for dinner, take a moment to pray together as a family or friend group, and invite one member of your supper club to light the first candle. It’s such a simple but meaningful way to mark the beginning of a season of hope. And a gentle reminder that even though I’ve shared ideas for outfits, décor, and dinner inspiration, what matters most in hospitality and kinkeeping has nothing to do with having the “right” things. It’s all about showing up with a generous heart, making people feel seen and welcome, and creating space for shared prayer and connection. Those three things cost nothing—and they’re the reason Sunday Supper Club is worth doing in the first place.

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