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Real Intelligence in a Digital Era I was the last generation to grow up with very basic technology. Second generation mobile devices were in existence when I was a child but they did very little and not everyone saw the need to own one. We had dial up internet with a modem that would ring out the tune of connecting to the world wide web with a volume that only Bose surround sound could match. I have funny memories of trying to connect late at night to chat with my friends after my parents said not to get online and throwing my body over the modem so that it wouldn't be heard. I remember when we had to page my dad while he was at work if we wanted to contact him personally. And when I became a teenager and "dumb phones" hit the scene I thought this new fangled SMS system was called Tex messages, instead of text messages. My mother used to warn us constantly about using the internet and the stranger danger that could come from it. There was so much precaution taken at that time when technology was growing in ways we had never imagined. Now look at us! I can't click on one pair of shoes without getting ads for more! I am a part of the last generation that actually remembers what it is like to not have instantaneous connection to whatever show I want to watch, music I want to hear, or people I want to talk to. I remember life without having a computer or cell phones in the house, ghastly! Actually, can we just go back to that? Need for Human Connection The real intelligence of life before this digital era was in the face-to-face communication and interactions. We knew our neighbors, we actually saw our friends, we talked to our loved ones on the house phone, and we visited each other more. Real human connection was not replaced with inhuman messages and profiles. And we need those real human connections to see facial expressions, hear tone, sense the environment, and feel the emotions of others. Our social engagement system was actually able to grow and properly develop as it should for us to feel we are truly connected and safe in this world. It's no surprise that mental health issues are at an all-time high; we are living in ways that are more disconnected and unnatural than ever before. When I think back on some of the most connected, celebratory, and human times of my life one of the first things that come to mind are our block parties. These traditional block parties stood as a vital reminder of the importance of community. These gatherings, once a staple of neighborhood life, served as a bridge connecting us to our local communities, fostering relationships, and celebrating the seasons with those who lived closest to us. I've talked to many friends and followers who remember this from years past but now sadly lament that they don't even know their neighbors. I think it's time to revive them and before giving you some practical tips for planning a block party, I want to share why I think they are essential to the life of a local community. The Importance of Block Parties 1. Fostering Community Connection: Block parties provide a unique opportunity to connect with neighbors in a relaxed and informal environment. They break down barriers and encourage conversations that might not happen otherwise, turning strangers into friends and acquaintances into close-knit community members. These events remind us that we are not alone; we are part of a larger, supportive network. 2. Celebrating the Seasons Together: Seasonal celebrations, whether it's a summer barbecue, a fall festival, or a winter holiday gathering, mark the passage of time and give us reasons to come together. These events help us appreciate the changing seasons and the beauty they bring, creating shared memories and traditions that strengthen community bonds. 3. Enhancing Safety and Security: Knowing your neighbors can significantly enhance the safety and security of your neighborhood. Block parties encourage residents to look out for one another, fostering a sense of collective responsibility. When you know your neighbors, you’re more likely to notice and respond to unusual activities, making the community safer for everyone. I'm lucky to have neighbors that let me know if the garage is open or if I left the trunk of the car up after carrying in a load of groceries. 4. Boosting Mental and Spiritual Well-Being: Social connections are crucial for mental health. Block parties offer a chance to unwind, socialize, and build supportive relationships, contributing to better mental and spiritual well-being. They provide a break from the stresses of daily life and a chance to enjoy simple pleasures with others. Practical Steps to Plan a Block Party Introduce Yourself to Your Neighbors: Some of you may already know your neighbors, but many of you don't. Before getting started this might be a good time to knock on their door, introduce yourself, and maybe drop off a plate or little bag of cookies. Share that you'd like to have a block party and see what their interest is. Get the Necessary Permits: Check with your local government about any permits required for hosting a block party. This may include street closure permits, noise ordinances, and other regulations. Starting this process early ensures you have everything in place for a smooth event. You might not need this, but it's a good step to take! Form a Planning Group: Gather a group of enthusiastic neighbors to help with the planning. Assign roles such as coordinating food, entertainment, decorations, and activities. A collaborative effort lightens the load and ensures a more diverse and inclusive event. Set a Date and Time: Choose a date and time that works for most residents. Weekends are typically best, and consider scheduling it during a time when people are likely to be home, such as late afternoon or early evening. Spread the Word: Promote the event through flyers, social media, and word of mouth. Ensure everyone in the neighborhood is aware of the event and feels welcome to attend. Personal invitations can be particularly effective in encouraging participation. Plan Food and Drinks : Organize a potluck-style meal where everyone brings a dish to share. This not only eases the burden on any one person but also allows for a diverse spread of food. Provide non-alcoholic beverages and consider a designated area for those who wish to bring alcoholic drinks. Organize Activities and Entertainment: Plan a variety of activities to keep everyone entertained. This could include games for children, live music, a talent show, or even a movie screening. Activities help break the ice and keep the energy high throughout the event. Create a Comfortable Environment: Set up tables and chairs, provide shade with tents or umbrellas, and decorate the area to create a festive atmosphere. Make sure there are enough trash and recycling bins to keep the area clean. Encourage Interaction: Facilitate introductions and encourage neighbors to mingle. Name tags, icebreaker games, and group activities can help people get to know each other better. Consider Safety and Accessibility: Ensure the event is safe and accessible for everyone. This includes having a first aid kit on hand, providing clear signage for restrooms, and considering the needs of those with mobility issues. Follow Up: After the event, thank everyone for their participation and gather feedback. Discuss what worked well and what could be improved for future block parties. Keep the momentum going by planning regular community events. By embracing the tradition of block parties, we not only celebrate the seasons but also strengthen the relationships of our immediate communities. These gatherings remind us of the power of human connection and the joy of coming together with friends, family, and neighbors. So, let’s keep the spirit of block parties alive and thriving!

Creating Family Time and Traditions in the Summer Summer has always been one of my favorite times of the year, even though it's hot as all get out where I live. Being born and raised in East Texas certainly helped me to get acclimated to the heat but it was also more tolerable because of all the fun things we used to do. Liturgical Living Through the Seasons I'm sure that I've shared with you before that I wasn't raised in a practicing Catholic family and you may have also heard me say that I grew up in a generational liturgical living family. How is that possible? There is one clear answer and that is God's grace. More practically speaking the liturgical life of the church was handed down to me through my grandmother who pulled her children and grandchildren together to share faith, culture, and family time. I also received the liturgical year through the natural seasons which my family was very much in tune with. The natural seasons: winter, fall, spring, and summer, were always marked with special festivities and food in my home. Knowing God Through the Seasons By celebrating and living in close connection to the natural seasons I was able to observe the foundations of the liturgical year, the patterns of life in their most basic form. And I was given the opportunity to come to know the God creation on a very basic level, through a rhythmic and seasonal system that existed before the liturgical calendar. In essence, liturgical living came to me through the dying and rising pattern of creation before adding in feasts, devotions and dedications from the liturgical year. Keep Your Memories Alive Summer, in particular, was given life with the annual summer crawfish boil, monthly pool parties, our neighborhood block party, outdoor movie & snack nights, indoor camping, 4 wheeler riding (also called muddin'), and dance parties. As I read that back I think I might get questions about whether the movie and snack nights were actually outdoors and the camping was actually indoors. That is correct! My dad had a TV set up in our outdoor patio and my mother wasn't one for camping so we would set up our kid size tents in the living room and she would serve us snacks and set up games. I love these precious memories, but I try to not just keep them as a memory but as a living, breathing experience that endures with my family and friends today. Do you pass down the things of your childhood and family life to your children, husband, neighbors, and friends? If not, I encourage you to do so, this is how we create tradition. Summer Tradition Ideas Summer is the perfect season for families and friends to come together and create lasting memories. The warm weather and longer days provide ample opportunities for bonding and fun. Here are some creative and engaging ways to establish family time and traditions this summer. 1. Weekly Family Picnics Hosting a weekly picnic can be a delightful way to enjoy the outdoors together. Choose different parks or scenic spots each week. Bring along a basket filled with favorite foods, a blanket, and some games. This tradition allows everyone to disconnect from their routines and reconnect with each other. 2. Gardening Together Start a family garden where everyone can contribute. Whether it’s planting flowers, vegetables, or herbs, gardening teaches patience, responsibility, and teamwork. Plus, harvesting and eating your home-grown produce is a rewarding experience. This activity can become a summer staple, evolving each year as your garden grows. 3. Outdoor Movie Nights Transform your backyard into an open-air theater. Hang a white sheet or set up a projector screen, lay out some blankets and pillows, and enjoy a movie under the stars. Choose a night of the week to make this a regular event, complete with popcorn and your family’s favorite films. 4. Beach, Lake, or Pool Days If you live near a beach or a lake, dedicate one day each week to water fun. Pack a cooler, bring along some water toys, and spend the day swimming, building sandcastles, and playing beach games. These outings provide a relaxing environment for everyone to unwind and bond. 5. Family Road Trips Plan mini road trips to explore nearby attractions, nature spots, or even Catholic churches. Visit national parks, historical sites, or quirky roadside attractions. These trips don’t have to be elaborate; even a short drive can lead to a day of adventure and learning. My friends over at Friends of the Faith suggested that you try traveling to local holy places, you never know what sacred images, stories, and encounters you might have! 6. Cooking and Baking Together Involve everyone in preparing meals or baking treats. Try out new recipes or recreate family favorites. This activity not only brings everyone into the kitchen but also teaches valuable cooking skills. You can even start a family recipe book, adding new dishes each summer. 7. Summer Spiritual Reading Challenge Encourage a love for reading by starting a summer reading challenge. Set goals and reward achievements with a special treat or outing. Create a cozy reading nook or have family reading sessions where each member shares their favorite book. 8. DIY Craft Projects Engage in arts and crafts projects that the whole family can enjoy. Create tie-dye shirts, paint canvases, or build birdhouses. Display your creations around the house or garden as a reminder of your fun summer projects. 9. Fitness and Sports Activities Stay active together by trying out different sports or fitness routines. Go for bike rides, play soccer, or have a weekly family walk time. This promotes a healthy lifestyle and keeps everyone energized. 10. Star Gazing Nights On clear nights, set up a cozy spot in the yard with blankets and pillows to watch the stars. Use a telescope if you have one, or simply lie back and enjoy the night sky. Learn about constellations together and make wishes on shooting stars. 11. Family Game Tournaments Host a series of game nights with both indoor and outdoor games. From board games and card games to relay races and scavenger hunts, these tournaments can become highly anticipated events filled with laughter and friendly competition. 12. Daily Family Prayer Time Dedicate some time to every day to praying together. Each week, go to adoration with one another, even if it's just for 10-15 minutes. This is a great time to ground your family in the spiritual disciplines you were wanting to do during the school year but were too busy to begin. Let's do it now! By incorporating these activities into your summer routine, you can create meaningful family traditions that will be cherished for years to come. The key is to be consistent and open to new experiences, ensuring that each summer is filled with joy, laughter, and togetherness. I pray that you were able to gather helpful ideas for bringing summertime into your home and community. Tell me how it went in the comments or by sharing pictures with me on Facebook or Instagram.

Symbols play a significant role in deepening spiritual connections and conveying profound truths. Among these symbols, flowers hold a special place, with each bloom often carrying layers of meaning and association. In particular, the Blessed Virgin Mary is often linked with various flowers, each representing different aspects of her character, virtues, and mysteries. Throughout the month of May and the upcoming summer months it's easy to get inspired to plant a garden, but as Catholics we can make it even more meaningful by choosing blooms that will speak to Our Lady. Within that garden you could even put a garden statue of Mary and a bench or a comfortable chair to sit in while you pray the rosary. Let's explore the significance of some flowers commonly associated with the Blessed Virgin Mary. 1. Rose Perhaps the most iconic flower associated with Mary is the rose. Just as the rose is often considered the queen of flowers, Mary is often referred to as the Queen of Heaven. The rose symbolizes her purity, beauty, and grace. In Marian art and devotional imagery, Mary is frequently depicted holding or surrounded by roses, symbolizing her role as the Mystical Rose. The rosary, isa popular devotion dedicated to Mary, and is often symbolized by a garland of roses. 2. Lily The lily is another prominent flower in Marian symbolism, representing purity, innocence, and the Immaculate Conception of Mary. Its white petals symbolize Mary's sinlessness and her role as the vessel of God's grace. Mary is often depicted holding a lily, signifying her purity of heart and soul. The Annunciation, the moment when the angel Gabriel announced to Mary that she would conceive Jesus, is often depicted with lilies as a symbol of the purity of the Virgin. 3. Violet Violets are associated with humility and modesty, virtues exemplified by Mary throughout her life. Mary's humility is celebrated as she willingly accepted God's plan for her life, despite its challenges and uncertainties. Violets, with their delicate beauty and unassuming presence, serve as a reminder of Mary's humble and obedient response to God's call. 4. Lily of the Valley Often called "Our Lady's Tears," the Lily of the Valley is associated with Mary's sorrows, particularly her grief at the crucifixion of her son, Jesus. Its drooping white blossoms symbolize Mary's tears shed during her earthly life as she witnessed the suffering of her beloved son. Despite her sorrow, Mary's faith and love remained steadfast, offering solace and compassion to all who turn to her in times of trial. 5. Bluebells Bluebells are sometimes associated with the Blessed Virgin Mary due to their gentle blue hue, reminiscent of the color often used to depict her in traditional art. Blue is a color often associated with Mary, symbolizing her heavenly nature, purity, and maternal love. Bluebells, with their delicate bell-shaped flowers, evoke a sense of reverence and tranquility, inviting believers to contemplate Mary's role as the Mother of God and our spiritual mother. 6. Marigold In some cultures, marigolds are associated with Mary and are used in devotional practices honoring her. The vibrant orange and gold hues of marigolds symbolize Mary's glory and majesty as Queen of Heaven. Marigolds are often offered as tokens of devotion and adornment in Marian shrines and processions, serving as a colorful expression of love and reverence for the Blessed Virgin. 7. Forget-Me-Not This delicate flower symbolizes remembrance and eternal love. In the context of Mary, the Forget-Me-Not can represent the enduring love and intercession of the Blessed Virgin for all her children. It serves as a reminder that Mary never forgets those who turn to her in prayer and seek her maternal care. 8. Honeysuckle Honeysuckle is often associated with Mary's sweetness, devotion, and fidelity. In relation to Mary, it can symbolize the sweet fragrance of her love and virtues, and the unwavering devotion of her faithful followers. Just as the honeysuckle vine clings to its support, Mary's devotees cling to her as their spiritual guide and advocate. 9. Jasmine Jasmine is known for its intoxicating fragrance and delicate white flowers. In Marian symbolism, jasmine can represent purity, grace, and beauty of Mary's presence. Its heavenly scent evokes a sense of the divine and serves as a reminder of Mary's role as the Mother of God, whose love envelops her children like a comforting fragrance. 10. Carnation Carnations are often associated with devotion and motherhood. In the context of Mary, the carnation symbolizes her maternal love for humanity and her role as the nurturing mother of all believers. Its various colors, including white for purity and pink for maternal love, reflect different aspects of Mary's character and virtues. 11. Columbine Columbines are known for their unique, bell-shaped flowers and are often associated with innocence and purity. In relation to Mary, the columbine can symbolize her innocence and her role as the Immaculate Conception. Its graceful appearance reminds believers of Mary's gentle and pure-hearted nature, inviting them to emulate her virtues in their own lives. 12. Iris The iris is associated with faith, wisdom, and hope. In Marian symbolism, the iris represents Mary's faithfulness to God's will, her wisdom in discerning divine mysteries, and the hope she offers to all who seek her intercession. Its vibrant colors and elegant form serve as a visual reminder that we should be faithful to God's will just as Mary is. 13. Pansy Pansies are often linked with remembrance and loving thoughts. In connection with Mary, pansies symbolize the affection and reverence that believers hold for her. Their gentle appearance reflect the heartfelt devotion and admiration that people have for the Mother of God. 14. Peony Peonies are known for their large, fragrant blooms and are often associated with prosperity, compassion, and beauty. In relation to Mary, peonies symbolize her abundant grace and maternal care. Their lush petals and rich colors serve as a visual reminder of Mary's overflowing love and the spiritual blessings she bestows upon her children. 15. Morning Glory Morning glories are beloved for their bright, trumpet-shaped flowers that bloom in the early hours of the day. They symbolize renewal, hope, and the fleeting nature of life. In the context of Mary, morning glories represent the dawn of salvation brought forth by her son, Jesus Christ. Their fleeting blooms remind believers of the transient nature of earthly life and the eternal hope found in Mary's intercession. 16. Chrysanthemum Chrysanthemums are associated with honor, loyalty, and longevity. Chrysanthemums symbolize Mary's exalted status as Queen of Heaven! Their diverse colors and intricate blooms reflect the multifaceted nature of Mary's role as intercessor, protector, and guide. 17. Daffodil Daffodils are known for their cheerful yellow blossoms, which herald the arrival of spring. They symbolize rebirth, new beginnings, and the promise of hope. In connection with Mary, daffodils represent the joy and hope that she brings to the world through her son, Jesus Christ. Their bright petals serve as a reminder of Mary's role in the redemption of humanity and the renewal of all all creation. These floral symbols associated with the Blessed Virgin Mary can offer us a profound way to deepen our devotion and understanding of Mary's role in salvation history. Each flower carries its own unique symbolism, reflecting different facets of Mary's character, virtues, and mysteries. Whether it's the purity of the rose, the humility of the violet, or the sorrow of the Lily of the Valley, these flowers invite us to contemplate the beauty and grace of the Mother of God, who continues to intercede for us with her maternal love and compassion. Did you plant a Marian Garden using this guide? Share a picture with me on Facebook or Instagram and tag His Girl Sunday!

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